The Eighth Month

For Christmas I received a Washi Calendar from my son who is currently living in a remote village in the mountains of Japan. On the first day of every month I reveal a new page of the calendar with the sadness of not knowing when or if I’ll ever see my son again. The world has gotten that shaky.

Despite all the evil in the world, we’ve managed to reach the eighth month of 2025. In the US there are no official holidays during this month. In Japan there’s only one: The 11th or Mountain Day.

The symbol or kanji for the eighth month is said to resemble a mountain.

Apparently there are no official celebrations of Mountain Day, much the same as last month’s Marine Day , but everyone is encouraged to take the day off to celebrate their favorite or closest mountain. (Japan is 80% mountain so it’s not that hard!)

My memories of this last month of summer, before life gets back to the normal grind of work or school, are of uneasy transitions. I would barely get settled in to a new routine when all too suddenly came the holidays! Yippee! More expectations, more preparations, more stress!

From Bing images

But, in Japan the symbol for this month is the pink lotus, the flower that arises from murky water and thus represents enlightenment, purity and spiritual awakening. Perhaps … I’ve been thinking about this month all wrong! Perhaps … I should hightail it to the nearest mountain and seek some of that enlightenment.

Or perhaps I’m more like the grass.

28 thoughts on “The Eighth Month

  1. Love the quote! I’m sorry that your son is so far away; that would be very difficult. For me, my late parents’ anniversary is the 7th, my birthday the 12th and my late husband’s the 14th. It was always a busy month celebrating and getting ready for school to start. Now it’s much quieter.

  2. Funny, I was just writing someone about the mountains and how people don’t really understand mountains, most anyway. Duke

  3. Sorry to hear about the distance with your son. Parents have to accept the cost of their children’s happiness. (And go visit as often as can be…)

    Om mani padme Hum

  4. Lotus, grass – both are good and beautiful. Okay, the Lotus is outstanding.

    This calendar has been wonderful, Jan. Thank you for each new month!

  5. I ahve enjoyed following along withsome of the calendar posts! Learn a little bit about Japanese culture – and you – and also get a little bit of inspiration (even amidst the looming stress in the world – sigh)

  6. The calendar posts are a great idea. I love the August illustration but I can’t help being nosy and wondering why you might never see your son again, and why he’s in a remote village in Japan? Maybe you can make that visit… xx

    1. Thanks Restless. He and his wife don’t have much faith in the current state of affairs in the US and so I doubt they will return. I’ll try to get over there … we’ll see.

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