What do you do with pictures of people you’ve never met but who were special to someone you loved? It’s a icky, sticky, wicket to those of us who inherit our grandparent’s photos and memorabilia and guess what folks? As the eldest grandchild on my mother’s side of the family all those boxes and albums are in my possession and my siblings and cousins couldn’t be happier!
Hello people I don’t know. You seem fine and dandy and I do love your photos but I can only guess at who you are. Or were. Or are.
So what will I do with all these pictures of folks I don’t know? Invite them to some ghostly Thanksgiving seance so they can tell me their stories? What would you do?
And now – the truth about what really happened to Beauregard
I tried to think of a funny Thanksgiving story to tell but the only thing that came to mind was the year my father decided to confess at the dinner table. I believe his aunt Katherine was in attendance as well as his cousin Jim and recently widowed sister Helen Betty. And of course, his adult children. The table was set to perfection. The entrees ready to go. Everything … but the scalloped potatoes. They’d been delayed by Dad’s two inept and half-drunk divorcee daughters and we were in Deep Shit. The air was icy; the perfect dinner ruined and so Dad in some half baked attempt to save his daughters from eternal damnation rose and admitted he’d lied. On a recent hunting trip, Beauregard, his wife’s favorite basset hound, hadn’t been hit by a car and killed.
Dad had mistaken the dog for an elk and shot him dead. We tried not to laugh, we really did. Poor Dad. The things parents go through for their children.
Happy Thanksgiving – and please remember to turn on the oven before you start drinking the wine.
By high school I’d decided that I wanted no trinkets (such as yearbooks) to remind me of the four miserable years I’d spent in high school. Truth be told, I probably brought on my own misery by telling my classmates that everything they held dear was stupid.Football – stupid.Proms – stupid.Cheerleading – really, really stupid. And what was smart?Protesting senseless wars, archaic dress codes and, well, just about anything. It’s a miracle my classmates didn’t drown me in PE, which I probably also protested.
However, before I became such a sanctimonious nincompoop, I was an insecure junior high schooler desperate to fit in.Not only did I buy yearbooks, but I had everyone I ran into sign the darn things, even the teachers!
Recently I cracked open my junior high school yearbook. I was looking for a name mentioned by a friend that sounded familiar. I didn’t find the name but I was opening a door that should have remained forever closed.
First to the good memories: Above is my favorite science teacher.He was young, red-haired and fool-hardy enough to lead an astronomy club full of thirteen-year- olds up to the shingled rooftop of a four-story building where there was nothing to stop anyone of us from rolling off the edge.
My German teacher insisted we call him Herr Assmus. I guess he figured that if he was going to be teased for his name by students, he might as well go along with the gag. However he had his limits. One day, after being forced to teach German in a room also used for Sex Education, he erupted in a fury: “I cannot teach German with a penis staring at me!” Then he proceeded to rip a diagram of a penis off the wall while we all cracked up.
This teacher hated me.I had absolutely no homemaking skills and practically burnt down her kitchen.
My art teacher reminded me of Tony Randall from the Odd Couple.Fastidious and neat but always smiling.
Our custodian was always on the spot when we forgot the combinations to our locker but never scolded us.I guess that’s why he got a special place in the yearbook.
Nori had it all:Looks, athletic ability, and a stable family.He was also an alcoholic.I went out with him once in high school; he picked me up drunk and took me to a party with other football players and their girlfriends.There he proceeded to get even drunker and wandered off to a bedroom where the school’s “easy” girl serviced the boys while their prim girlfriends sat together and gossiped.One of the other football players became disgusted with the game and took me home. Not long after, Nori drove off a cliff up at Tahoe.
After his death, we found out his other “shameful” secret:he was Jewish.
Blake took one psychedelic too many and ended up in the state mental institute. When we went to see him, he claimed to be Jesus. Not long after, he also died.
Dee was so cute and bubbly that all the boys had crushes on her, even the ones from out in the sticks where she would have been called “colored” or worse.She disappeared from school one day without a word.Months later we found out from our sex education teacher that she’d bled to death in an alley in Oakland, California after an illegal abortion.I often think about her. Fourteen years old.
My mother tried to set me up with this guy because his father was a self-made millionaire. He had a Trump-like personality and actually shot someone he’d never met in the back thinking he’d get away with it.Pretty boy didn’t last long in jail.
Above is the James Dean of our class. His rebellious streak got him slapped around (and worse) by the male teachers (hey – this was a different time).He’s probably in jail but I liked him.
This gal actually murdered someone and got away with it. But it was okay because he was a Piute Indian and she was the daughter of a prominent socialite. On her picture she wrote “Nancy is a queer.” As far as I know, she is still alive.
Okay – we didn’t all turn out to be murderers or drug addicts or dead in an alley somewhere. Jon, who was a neighbor of mine, is a lawyer who worked in the Obama administration.The last time I saw Johanna and Lucille was at the premiere of their art show at the De Young Museum. Steve was Mr. Popular all through school because he was kind and thoughtful to everyone.He’s a basketball coach out in Winnemucca.
Oh and I found a picture of my ex-husband as a thirteen year old which you don’t get to see becauseI want you to have some respect for me!
My advice to you all is stay away from those old yearbooks.Reopening them is often like playing the game Jumanji.